it is well with your soul

i know you are hurting, my dearest sister. you put up the strong front for everyone around you, so they will not need to share in your pain. your pain is your own to bear, right? well, wrong! whenever you have the chance,  you will share with me about the things you cherish with him, the one you love so much, unconditionally. though you believe he loves and appreciates you, yet he cannot give you a future, not one according to your heart's desire. 


yet you are willing, willing to love him with all your understanding and do not mind to be loved in return as his 3rd or 4th priority. how could you love yourself so little in compromising your life's happiness? you deserve the best because of who you are. 


you have been hurt so badly that it will take time and a newfound love to heal your wounds and make you complete again. till then, take all the time you need to find yourself, be the best in what you do. do not ever let another person direct the way you live your life, any lesser than what it should be. you have so much love to give, and there is this person whom God created for you, to complete your life once and for all. so, in the meantime, be smart to say no to doors that do not belong to you lest you should be hurt again. 


you will wake up one day and realise you are not waking up to that same dulling pain in your heart. that is when , it is well with your soul.