right believing, right living

i've heard it been said before, that the self in us tends to make bad a situation, even if it does not call for it. when you have a relationship to treasure, yet you go ahead to make ways unbearable for your partner and you. there's a tendency to destroy the precious things in life. that's the self in us. 
if you had the chance to make it right, will you now? or the pride in you is causing you to hold back. is the person important enough that you do not want to live without him or her. isn't it time to think about what you want in life, you may not know what will happen in future, all you can do is trust and wait on God. put all your good ideas aside, because He has the last say, only God ideas will bring prosperity and completeness into your life. 
so in the end, it's not about what you do, it's about right believing, leading to right living.